Blog posts
Safety First, Orgasm Second
Why your body won’t “let go” when it doesn’t feel safe, and why self-pleasure still matters right now.. Let me say this loud, because way too many people are quietly...
How to Pick a Toy for Low Mental Load (the SCAN → SELECT → SETUP method)
If your brain is loud and your to-do list won’t shut up, you might just need less friction. Low mental load toys are quiet, predictable, easy to hold, and easy...
When ADHD Paralysis Hijacks Your Sex Drive
You ever just lay in bed thinking, "I should masturbate... but I can't even bring myself to reach for the damn vibrator?" Or maybe you want to initiate sex with your...
How to Reignite Intimacy in the New Year
Ah, the New Year—fresh starts, bold goals, and a chance to rediscover the connection you’ve been missing. If you’re here, it’s probably because intimacy has felt… off. Maybe life got...
5 Sexy Self-Care Rituals That Will Have You Begging for More (From Yourself)
Self-care isn’t just bubble baths and face masks (although, we love those too). It’s about reconnecting with yourself—body, mind, and pleasure. 💋 Whether you’re looking to reignite your libido, deepen...
How to Keep the Spark Alive During Thanksgiving Chaos
Ah, Thanksgiving. A time for turkey, stuffing, family drama, and way too many dishes. Let’s be real: the holidays bring out the best…and the most chaotic moments. Between Uncle Bob’s...