Ah, the New Year—fresh starts, bold goals, and a chance to rediscover the connection you’ve been missing. If you’re here, it’s probably because intimacy has felt… off. Maybe life got in the way, or you just haven’t felt as close to yourself—or your partner—as you’d like.
Girl, I get it.
Let me share something personal. Last year, between running a business, raising kids, and managing all the moving pieces of life, I started to feel disconnected. That “roommate phase” everyone talks about? Yeah, I felt it creeping in.
But here’s the truth: intimacy doesn’t just happen. It’s something you choose to nurture and prioritize. When I made that choice, everything changed—for me, my relationship, and my confidence.
Step 1: Focus on You First
Intimacy starts with YOU. If you’re not feeling good in your own skin, it’s hard to show up for anyone else. That’s why taking time for solo exploration is so important.
One of my favorite tools? The Zen Rose Unicorn Stimulator. It’s the perfect way to reconnect with your body and remind yourself that you deserve pleasure—on your terms.
Step 2: Make Intimacy Playful Again
Sometimes, we get so caught up in the routine that intimacy starts to feel like another task on the list. Instead, bring back a sense of curiosity and fun! One night, I pulled out the Bondage Love Pillow and let me tell you—it completely shifted the energy.
Adding playful elements can help you break out of old patterns and reconnect in new, exciting ways.
Step 3: Talk About It
Let’s be real—mismatched drives, stress, or even past experiences can create distance in the bedroom. But here’s the thing: intimacy thrives on communication.
If you’re not sure how to start the conversation, that’s exactly what my workshops and group coaching sessions are here for. We dive into tools and strategies to help you navigate these challenges and come out stronger together.
Step 4: Add a Little Spark
Switching things up doesn’t have to be complicated. Sometimes, all you need is something new to reignite the excitement. The Geminii is a versatile toy that’s great for solo or partnered play.
And let’s not forget the importance of lubrication! The B-Luv’d Silicone Lubricant is a total game-changer, making every touch smoother, more sensual, and oh-so satisfying.
Step 5: Take Action
If you’re ready to dive deeper, my Reclaim Your Libido download is packed with actionable tips to help you rediscover your spark and feel confident in your intimacy again. And for those who want personalized support, my coaching sessions are the perfect way to get one-on-one guidance tailored to YOU.
Step 6: Don’t Forget the Power of Touch
Sometimes, intimacy starts with the simplest things—like touch. A back rub, holding hands, or even a playful nibble can create closeness without pressure. (If you’re looking for a way to spice it up, the Bite Me toy is a fun and cheeky way to reconnect.)
My Resolution for 2025
This year, I’m making intimacy a priority. For me, that means being intentional about connection—whether it’s a moment of self-care or something shared with my partner.
And I want that for you, too. Let’s make this the year you feel empowered, confident, and completely in tune with your desires.
💋 Your next step? Check out my workshops, coaching sessions, and curated tools to start your journey today.
Here’s to your most intimate, fulfilling year yet—you’ve got this!
Xoxo, Courtney