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Explore, Embrace, and Elevate your sexual journey.

Why Courtney Started Empowerotica

My journey into women's sexual health and wellness kicked off in 2018, the moment I held my forst born daughter. Buuuuuut let's be real, I've been advocating for women since I was old enough to argue with adults. Case in point: seventh grade, career day assignment. I boldly chose "independent business owner," busted my ass for hours, and still got slapped with an F because my teacher thought I was trying to take the "easy way out." Joke’s on him! Turns out, advocating fiercely for women’s autonomy became my whole damn mission. Especially as the girl who consistently couldn't "control speech and actions" throughout my school years.

Fast-forward through personal battles with sexual trauma, intimacy that felt tainted by shame, neurodivergence that could quite literally dry up the Gulf of Mexico, and societal bullshit that tried to tell me…. well basically nothing positively impactful about my body, I wasn’t having it. I built Empowerotica, a badass woman owned community committed to celebrating every body, every kink, every truth. No shame. No judgment. Just radical self-love and authentic sexual expression.

Here’s the deal: we're done apologizing. We trade stigma for curiosity, shame for empowerment, and judgment for authenticity. Because every single one of us deserves to feel sexy, powerful, and perfectly badass in our own skin. Exactly. as. we. are.

"Hydrate, Meditate, Masturbate, Repeat..."

In the middle of raising four wild and wonderful daughters, fronting a female-led rock band with my partner, and running my business as a seasoned hairdresser, something clicked in 2022: this wasn’t just a side passion anymore.. sexual wellness was my calling, and I had a global platform to raise some serious hell (in the best way). I saw the impact I could make, the lives I could change, the VOICES I could enhance.. and I wasn’t about to play small.

Juggling all the hats- mom, business owner, band frontwoman, creative, neurodivergent queen (hello ADHD, OCD, and a dash of anxiety)- meant I had to get smart about support. I stopped trying to do it all myself, brought on an assistant, and started hosting what I like to call "working happy hours" with fellow badass entrepreneurs. Because community, laughter, and getting shit done can actually co-exist (even when at least one of us is consistently late, 🫠).

One of my life mantras- “Hydrate, Meditate, Masturbate, Repeat.” And yes, I print that on koozies for my clients. (Though, full disclosure: one ended up in my kid’s backpack and made it to school. Oops. Parenting win? You decide.)

"I didn’t build a brand. I built a rebellion."

In less than a year, I sparked a movement of nearly half a million neuro-spicy humans, ADHD brains, anxious babes, sensory seekers, trauma survivors, couples at their absolute breaking point.... who were done with shame and ready to reclaim their pleasure, their bodies, and their right to take up space.

I’ve been featured on podcasts, published in Bustle, and invited into spaces that used to silence voices like mine. And I didn’t show up quiet yall..... I showed up loud, honest, and real.

Sex for shock value is one thing.

But this is about liberation.

About looking in the mirror and not just tolerating what you see but loving the SHIT out of it.

This work is neurodivergent-friendly, trauma-informed, and zero shame. Always.

I don’t do fluffy advice or empty empowerment slogans.

I do tools. Truth. Consent. Curiosity. And the kind of transparency that makes people feel seen instead of judged. My entire life I’ve been told that I’m a ‘force’. At times I thought it might be a bad thing… that I’ve scared off potential friends… but really- that ‘force’ is one of my favorite things about myself. The love I have for holding space for taboo topics like sex and utilizing that force to make shit happen?? Well let’s just say FAFO.

My mission is to build a world where silence is never mistaken for consent.

Where overstimulated minds don’t get left out of the pleasure conversation.

Where your “too much” becomes your superpower.

Where you stop trying to fix yourself and start fucking adoring yourself.

Cheers to messy healing, loud orgasms, bold questions, unfiltered truth, and building a pleasure revolution for the brains that never shut up.

Welcome to Empowerotica. You're exactly where you’re meant to be.

"One of the best things that ever happened to me is that I'm a woman. That is the way all females should feel."

– Marilyn Monroe