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Explore, Embrace, and Elevate your sexual journey.

Why Courtney Started Empowerotica

Once upon a whirlwind of motherhood and melodies, I embarked on a passionate journey in women’s sexual health and wellness in 2018. The catalyst? Welcoming my first baby into the world. A fiery desire to empower women, celebrate sexual identity, and break the stigma surrounding self-love set my course. My goal? To cultivate a sex-positive culture where every body is celebrated, every person feels confident, and sexual identity is owned with pride.

Personal experiences of sexual trauma colored my perception of intimacy. I knew there was more to it than pain and shame. I aim to create a welcoming community that fosters self-exploration, challenges the taboos of self-pleasure, and dismantles the walls of judgment. Every individual, I believe, deserves to know their beauty and the incredible potential of their bodies.

"Hydrate, Meditate, Masturbate, Repeat..."

Amidst the delightful chaos of raising three girls, fronting a female-led band with my partner, and wielding my scissors as a hairdresser of over a decade, my career in sexual wellness caught fire in 2022. The epiphany? I had a global platform to make a real impact, to support lives worldwide, and I wasn’t about to miss that opportunity.

Juggling my responsibilities and neurodiversity (ADHD, OCD, and autism spectrum) led me to embrace help-seeking, hiring an assistant, and hosting working “happy hours” with colleagues. My motto? “Hydrate, Meditate, Masturbate, Repeat” – though sometimes, the koozies I send to clients end up in my girls’ backpacks and at school!

"So, here's to consent, exploration, self-love, and living unapologetically...."

With over 200,000 social media followers in just a year, podcast appearances, being published in bustle, and advocacy work for sexual health, I’ve seen the ripple effect of fostering a sex-positive culture. The belief that consent, exploration, and self-love are transformative cornerstones has driven my mission. I’ve learned that patience is paramount and that admiring our own bodies in the mirror is a liberating act.

I hold values dear – confidentiality, trust, openness – and uphold a no-shame policy. My vision? By nurturing a sex-positive world, we can reduce non-consensual experiences, strengthen relationships, and boost mental clarity. I believe that when we embrace our sexual selves, we unlock a life filled with confidence, happiness, and more extravagant intimate adventures.

So, here’s to consent, exploration, self-love, and living unapologetically. Here’s to a sex-positive world where everyone is an adult, everyone is consenting, and no one gets hurt unless it’s by choice. Cheers to embracing ourselves and creating a world that loves, celebrates, and uplifts every beautiful body and soul.

"One of the best things that ever happened to me is that I'm a woman. That is the way all females should feel.

– Marilyn Monroe